Yup, I'm on another hiatus. This time from both Facebook AND Instagram. I can't express how much of a doozy this last guy was. He lives on social media. Made me wanna delete both my accounts. Ugh.
That's one thing that is a complete turn off for me. I mean, I don't mind here and there, posting, or a chat. But, the phone never left his sight. Even when he went to the restroom, he took the phone with him ... no matter where we were. It got to be kind of annoying. I mean, my phone pretty much lives in my hands, too. But, when I'm out with someone, especially on a date, the phone never sees the outside of my bag.
So, with this guy, since he always had his phone out, mine sort of just stayed out as well. He posted a lot on fb, and some on instagram, too.
Another thing that irritates the fuck outta me, too is when you're texting with a friend, or a guy you're seeing, and they send you a photo. Whether it's of them or something they want you to see. And, then BAM, it's up there on your newsfeed. It's like, are you fucking kidding me? Am I not special to you AT ALL? Nope, guess not. Especially the selfies. Dude claimed to never and not even liking to take selfies. He'd send me selfies and then I'd see them on instagram immediately after. Oh man. Who is this guy? He's a mess, that's who he is. Told me himself. Ugh.
I know it just comes with the territory now days, being that technology is everywhere and it's right there at our finger tips. But, holy balls, man. Put the phone away and fucking trust me. I'm not one of those crazy psycho bitches that are gonna try to go through your phone when you leave the table. Really, I'm not.
But, it seems that social media just makes us all a little too crazy. Seeing things you want to on a minute to minute basis, and seeing things you don't want to. That's mainly why I'm taking another hiatus. This one is indefinite. The reason being ... I don't want to see anything this guy in particular is tagged in, commenting on, pictures he posts, nothing. Because of his knowledge on a bike, he's a huge deal in the motorcycle community down here, and the attention he gets is quite overwhelming for the girl he's with. Now, we aren't dating anymore, but that's still fresh for me. So, I really don't want to see anything on social media with or relating to him.
And, I am finding it quite refreshing to be "disconnected." Not knowing every single move all the people on my newsfeed is making right fricken now, is a breath of fresh air. All the complaining, drama kings and queens, events that I don't care about, especially all the attention the guy gets from all kinds of people, especially ex's ... all of it. So nice.
I guess I'm just over it all. It's too overwhelming at the moment ... trying to keep up with everything going on via facebook. I need a break to concentrate on the really good stuff happening for me. And, they are. It's all very exciting!
Good night, readers!
xoxo
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