Return of the Asshat

So, last night I get this text from an unknown number. It was a friendly hello, so I answered back with hi. I tried to think who it could be since I've deleted a lot of the guys I dated/talked to from the past 2 years. So, after I answered with "hi" I get a picture message back from this person.

It's a picture of HIS JUNK! Who do I know that sends me pics of his dong when I don't even ask NOR do I want to see it?? Yup, the Asshat. He's back. Anyway, the rest of the text convo went like this ....

I have to say that this guy has got some balls. Literally ... haha, kidding. But, seriously. To take a chance and text someone you haven't talked to or even MET in person after not having any contact for months and months?? Balls.

As you can see from our text message, I didn't stand to talk to this pig for long. Memory of his quick temper, text messages of his crude nature that always turned to ridicule, and then endless phone calls that go straight to my voicemail .... I was not excited to experience THAT again. 

I thought I handled it quick and rather cleverly, if I do say so myself. And, after months and months of not dating, not talking with guys or meeting anyone new, I realize that the amount of bullshit I'm willing to take from the opposite sex is zero to none. Shitty for any potential suitors, I know. But, it's what happens after you grow out of a phase, I guess. 

A phase. I guess that's all it was. After being with one man all through my twenties, I felt it was time I went out and enjoyed life as a single person. Doing what I wanted and seeing what potential lies out there with other people. Got my heart smashed a lot, but I suppose that's the price I paid for the experience.

Don't get me wrong. I'm very glad to have had the life I lived in the last 2 years, but I guess I'm saying that I'm over it. I'm tired. I still love to spend time with my friends, but most of all, I love being with my daughter. She is my light and my love. She only has one parent, and it's up to me to make it up to her because she has no real daddy to count on. 

With that said, I'm contemplating revealing a bit more about myself to you readers. I'm thinking in my next post ....

xoxo