Friday, December 21, 2012

Observations and ventilations ...

I've been noticing over the past few weeks all the new "couplings" that have been happening around me. Is it because of the holidays? Because we feel the need to cozy up to someone during this special time of the year? 

I don't know what it is, but I am definitely NOT a part of these "couplings." Maybe that's why I'm noticing them so much. I mean, not ALL my friends are in couples, but it sure seems like A LOT of them are .... on fb. Fb is not my friend right now. Feelings of loneliness are setting in since I have no special guy in my life. So many friends' profile picture is of them and their significant other. Sigh.

Some, rather all, just don't realize how it affects some of us. I mean, I'm happy for those who have found someone to co-exist with. Just a little frustrating for me since I want that so bad. I'm trying not to dwell on this stuff and just enjoy my time with B, family and friends. And, if I just stay away from fb, I'll return to my normal, happy-go-lucky self. That's what I'll do. 

The next 5 days are a mini vacation for me. Though, I'm not going anywhere, I'll be spending some good quality time with B. Friends and family, too. And, of course, it's Christmas next week, so it'll be a busy mini vacation! 

So, I'll end here. There's been a lot on my mind in the past week, just no time to post them. I hope to get some writing done here over the next few days. Goodnight, readers ... xoxo

2 comments:

  1. Cheer up girl ... don't jump on the bandwagon with couplings...yes it is nice but it has its negatives .... you ever notice when you are in a relationship, you miss being single......when you are single, you wish you were in a relationship .... we want what we don't have ... take some time and meet new people .... have fun and enjoy it ....

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    1. I get what you're saying. I do notice that ... the grass is always greener, right? Just feel like I've done all the meeting of new people I can without bursting at the seams, you know? I'm tired, so that's why I'm not dating for a while =)If it's gonna happen, I'll just let it happen ...

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