Ok, who's up for a weird dating story? This guy was definitely amiss ...
Met this guy last November online at one of those dating sites. At 27, I still consider that pretty young, but I decided to let that slide since I thought he was pretty cute and seemed to really want to get to know me. So, we exchange a few messages on the site before exchanging cell numbers and then texting.
First off, this guy came on pretty strong. I mean, the things he would say in his text messages could really f*ck with a girl's mind if she really let it. We hadn't even met and he was already asking me to be his girl. So, we decide to meet at December First Friday. My friend was having her birthday party at a small place in Chinatown and so I asked him to meet me there. Got there a little early and had hopes he wouldn't be too far behind me. But, as the night went on with no call or text from him, I figured he wasn't going to show. I tried not obsessing about it, but I did call him a few times to see if he was coming. It wasn't until midnight that I get a call from him saying he was "scared" to meet.
Well, after getting to know this guy a little better, I found he was just full of shit and not right in the head. We did meet that night and actually went on a date the next night. Things seemed to be going fine until Sunday afternoon. He texts me that he had a good time but wasn't "feeling it." Wow. After all that fanfare, the physical attraction that he expressed in such a short time, made me think that something had to be wrong since he seemed to be taking it all back. Somehow, he was under the impression that I wanted him to be MY boyfriend when I was very clear in the beginning that I wanted nothing of the sort. And, it seemed he really liked playing with girls' emotions. And the head-games ... ugh. I couldn't trust anything he said, nor make plans with him and he would call ME 'bat-shit crazy'.
Anyway, after two weeks of this nonsense crap, I decided to be done with this guy and move the hell on. No one should have to put up with the games he was playing with me.
A few weeks after I'd deleted him from my cell, he tried to get back in touch and set up a date and had implied he wanted to be friends with benefits. I mean, are you KIDDING me?? I laughed at the notion and decided not to waste anymore time with this jerkface. But, after this guy, there came a slew of jerks (or what felt like it) in such a short amount of time until I met motorcycle guy.
If anyone has a funny or weird dating story to share, please be my guest! There's more to come ... another time.
xoxo
I had a weird "situation" as well. I met this guy (won't say how) couple of years ago and after an exchange of text messages, I decided to set up a meeting at a neutral territory (or my neutral territory): Starbucks. First, he makes me wait for 30 minutes. Finally showing up and gives me a mixed cd (how high school is that!) of music I hate. Sorry, heavy metal is just not my thing! The next day he leaves me numerous voicemails how he wants to meet that night because he is hanging out with friends and wants to show me off (I kid you not, his exact words). I was ignoring his vm until I couldn't any longer and finally texted him I am busy. A few weeks later he drunk texts me that he is sorry he came on so strong and will no longer bother me. Really?!? Now, he moved to the mainland to be with a girl whom he met through FB. How weird is that?!?
ReplyDeleteWow! You had a doozy of your own!! Girl, doesn't that just suck? But then, you get some really good stories out of it, right? Reminds me of the guy I was dating about this time last year. Remember HIM? I'll have to dedicate a post or two to that situation.
DeleteThank you for sharing! I love it =)
Remember when I said that men aren't used to inflicting emotional pain on women. Well, they lose either way. This guy tells you the truth about his lack of chemistry with you but you chose not to accept in gracefull, dragged out dialogue and then rolled your eyes and verbally flogged him when he though he could get a little free loving on the side?
ReplyDeleteIf I were you, I would take the experience as a lesson in accepting rejection gracefully. I'd much rather someone tell me straight up and accept that not all people who see a picture of you wil be attracted to you in person, as there are a series of elements that come into play on the subject of physical attraction outide of merely the visuals.
Veruca, I didn't know he was crazy until after we had our date. We talked the next day, and forgive me if I'm wrong, but bruddah was very interested upon meeting me in person.
DeleteDude was so young and inexperienced, and that showed up fast, hence my short stint of a ... whatever with him. I wasn't trying to pursue anything with this guy, and I told him that I didn't want anything more than to have fun. In his fucked up brain, I wanted more which was not the case.