No, I'm not talking about a guy ... I'm talking about my riding friends. On fb. We're crazy in love with each other. Yeah ... no joke.
It's been about three weeks now since I've been added to multiple conversations with a bunch of friends I ride with. Since these conversations are so random and never stop, I feel like I'm around them all the time. Someone is always talking about plans to do something, so we see each other a lot, too. It's hilarious. They're crazy, sick, SICK people. But, I love them.
Most of the time, I don't really pay attention to the conversation at all during my work day. I'll peek in here and there, but don't chime in much. Not unless I really have something to say.
But, it's on-going. And, it makes me laugh. Also makes me wonder ... wft do these people do all day?!? I mean, if they're at work, at school or just wasting time at home. I don't know, but it makes for great entertainment.
There is one thing that kind of bothers me. It sorta sucks because some of the girls in this group are only around because they're sleeping with one of the guys. They bring around their trashy friends, and, guys will be guys. Like a moth to a flame ... Anyway, these girls seem interested in the bikes, but you can't really claim your staking ground unless you own a bike yourself. I learned about this through one of my new girl friends who was brought into the group the same way I was ... through a mutual friend. Only, she had a physical relationship with him whereas I did not. Gross .. dude is like the male version of me. Hahaha!
Anyhoo, before I met my friend, I met her cousin at a bike night back in June. She was dating/hanging out with one of the guys that is a part of the group and is on this never-ending conversation on fb. The guy is a cutie, and definitely stood out from the first bike night I went on. But, he was with her, so I looked no further.
After a while, I noticed she wasn't coming out with us anymore, and I wondered why. Not too much wonder, cause I started to see that he was noticing me. I thought, alright, maybe we'll hang more. So, we start talking and texting ... still haven't gone a ride with him, though he tells me we will. He's invited me out a lot, but I can never seem to hook up with him. And, I think the reason is because of what he said to my friends' cousin. It really made me think about dating within your realm of friends.
I like these people ... and I don't want one stupid little fling to ruin the connections I've started to make with them.
So, anyway, you're probably wondering, wft did he say?? Well, one night while we were out, my girl friend and I were talking and her cousin came up. She says that the guy told her that she can't hang out with his friends anymore, or go on any of the rides ... since they weren't going to be dating. That took me a few leaps back. Though nothing had transpired between me and this guy, I was thankful to be privy to this information at the time. It opened my eyes and made me realize that getting involved with any of them would mean disaster.
In the end, I feel kind of bad for these girls who are involved with some of the guys. As soon as they're done, these girls are considered outcasts. Unless they man-up and get a bike of their own. One girl did it, and she is amazing! I love that she's my friend.
Well, that came out longer than I had planned. Stay tuned ... I have another dating story from the past year that's gonna rock you. Or, at the very least, make you laugh.
But, right now ... it's lunch time.
xoxo
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